Discover Your KINK
TAG is currently in the process of relocating our dungeon. We thank you for your patience during this process. Please consider donating to help us with the move and check back for updates. Monthly socials have not been affected, so please join us there. - Thank you.
Explore. Connect. Enjoy.
Welcome to the TAG PentHouse
Things of interest
Visiting Rochester?
If you're a community member from another area and not yet a TAG member—no worries at all! We're genuinely excited to welcome thoughtful newcomers who align with our positive, consent-focused space.
Reach out to schedule your interview as soon as you can—you could be joining us at an upcoming event and experiencing the welcoming, educational community we've built here since 2016. (Just a quick note: we ask for at least 24 hours' notice to make sure everything goes smoothly and we can give you the best introduction possible.)
Drop us an email: TAGInfo@TheAphroditeGroup.org
This is such a great way to step in and see if TAG feels like the right fit for you. We're looking forward to connecting!
Workshops by YOU!
Our monthly workshops dive deeper into specific topics. Enhance your skills and knowledge while networking with passionate individuals in the community.
Whether you're exploring new techniques, understanding dynamics, or simply gaining more confidence. It's a fantastic chance to learn from experienced facilitators and connect meaningfully with others who share your curiosity and passion for this community.
Have a skill, insight, or topic you're excited to share? We'd love to hear from you! Let us know your ideas, and we can work to get you on the calendar—our community thrives when members step up to teach and inspire one another.
Just send us an email: TAGInfo@TheAphroditeGroup.org
We're always genuinely thrilled to welcome new voices and fresh perspectives into our space
Community Enhancements
At TAG, we’re as committed to real community connection as we are to consent-based kink and BDSM.
Look for our relaxed, non-play events: game nights, movie nights, picnics, discussion groups, arts & crafts, and more.
These are great low-pressure ways to chat, laugh, and build friendships in our supportive space.
Upcoming gatherings will appear in the Events tab when scheduled—check back often!
Not yet vetted for TAG events? Come to an upcoming vetting social. It’s a friendly, casual introduction to the community and the process to join.
We’re genuinely excited to grow together through these shared moments. Looking forward to what you’ll discover—or bring—when you join in!
Explore
Hours of operation
Saturday's 7pm - 1am
Workshops, community nights, collaborations, and themed events may run on different nights and times. Refer to the event page and calendar for up to date listings.
Lifestyle connections
Whispers Of Kink
Rochester's only Professional Dominatrix House—Whispers of Kink—where BDSM fantasy meets masterful control in a safe, discreet, fully equipped private dungeon.
Choose your Mistress from our lineup of highly skilled, experienced ProDommes, each bringing passion, expertise, and artistry to non-sexual, consensual power exchange.
Start with a thorough screening for trust and safety, then surrender to tailored sessions of impact, discipline, bondage, humiliation, psychological play, and more—crafted just for you. 21+ only. Professional. Discreet. Your deepest cravings, handled with care.
Visit: Mistress | Whispers Of Kink | Rochester
Part of the TAG family—keeping Upstate NY kinky, empowered, and unapologetically deviant.
KINK Unlimited
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Kink Unlimited Hotel Takeovers — the ultimate fusion where swing meets kink under one roof, brought to you by IPG (Intimate Parties Group) of NJ and TAG (The Aphrodite Group) of Rochester.
Held in Scranton, PA three times a year, these full hotel takeovers deliver an epic, consent-based, sex-positive playground packed with non-stop play: live performances, NYC club DJs spinning all night, themed games, sultry dancing, party floor shenanigans, dedicated dungeon spaces, themed rooms, and so much delicious deviance.
It's our signature escape for couples, single females, and vetted kinksters ready to let loose in a safe, inclusive space—no limits on the fun, just boundaries respected. RESTRICTIONS APPLY (vetting for single males, strict rules—check the site for details). 21+ only.
Dive in and make some unforgettable memories and connection. Visit: Kink Unlimited Events
Part of the TAG family—keeping Upstate NY and beyond kinky, connected, and wildly unapologetic.
Your group
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Hey Rochester-area kinksters and group leaders!
If you own and operate a BDSM, kink, swing, or fetish-focused group in or around Rochester, NY (or nearby Upstate spots), we'd love to connect and shine a spotlight on your crew.
Drop me your group info, website/FetLife link, and a quick blurb about what you do—we'll add you to this page so more like-minded deviants can find and join the fun.
This is all about building stronger ties in our scene: more play partners, more events, more delicious chaos. Whether you're hosting munches, play parties, classes, or full-on takeovers, let's amplify each other.
Shoot your details to me here using the contact form.
No pressure, just pure community vibes. Can't wait to list you and help spread the word.
Let's keep Rochester kinky and connected.
We want to hear from you
This form is for email correspondence only: Questions, comments or concerns. Use the form at the bottom of this page to be added to the TAG mailing list.
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