About The Aphrodite Group

The Aphrodite Group (TAG) is New York State's only woman-owned, private, members-only BDSM and kink community. Since 2016, we've been redefining what a BDSM community can be by creating a space where safety, consent, trust, education, and genuine human connection are the foundation of every experience.

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Inspired by the strength and wisdom of the Divine Feminine, TAG leads with empathy, intuition, collaboration, and empowerment—qualities rarely found at the heart of traditional kink spaces. While our community welcomes people of every gender, orientation, identity, and experience level, our philosophy is rooted in creating an environment where respect is earned, every voice matters, and authentic power begins with trust.

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Here, you'll find a judgment-free community where curiosity is encouraged, exploration is celebrated, and personal growth is supported. Whether you're taking your very first steps into BDSM or have years of experience, TAG provides a place to learn, connect, and thrive alongside others who share a commitment to consent, communication, accountability, and mutual respect.

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Our members enjoy weekly gatherings, educational classes, hands-on workshops, social nights, special events, and private play opportunities designed to foster both skill development and lasting friendships. More than a calendar of events, TAG is a community built on belonging—a place where individuals can discover themselves, build confidence, and form meaningful connections in a supportive, inclusive environment.

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Privacy and discretion are central to everything we do. Every member is vetted, every interaction is grounded in informed consent, and every experience reflects our commitment to maintaining a space where people feel safe enough to be authentically themselves.

At TAG, we believe that the greatest expressions of power are built on trust, consent, education, community, and connection. These principles guide every event we host and every relationship we help cultivate.

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Joining TAG is more than becoming a member—it's becoming part of a community that believes in lifting one another up, celebrating individuality, and empowering every person to explore their authentic selves with confidence.

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Your journey begins at one of our exclusive Vetting Socials. Once vetted, you'll gain access to a welcoming community where education meets exploration, friendships flourish, and your path within the kink community can unfold at your own pace.

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Welcome to The Aphrodite Group.

Where trust creates confidence, community inspires growth, and the Divine Feminine reminds us that true power is strongest when guided by compassion, consent, and connection.